It’s not always so easy or obvious when you’re trying to recognize true love in a relationship. However, it’s not going to be as difficult
as people might make it out to be either.
All you really need to do is just pay attention to the way that your partner conducts themselves in your relationship and whenever you spend time together. If you have a partner who is genuinely in love with you, then the connection and bond that you would have in the relationship should be palpable.
It should be a really strong and deep connection. However, if this isn’t the case, then it might be possible that you are merely manufacturing a faced of love within your relationship that is completely built on lies and falsehoods. It’s perfectly possible for you to think that you’re in love with someone even when the love is nonexistent in the relationship.
1. They Are Not As Invested In The Relationship As You Are
The relationship seems one sided. You are fully invested in the relationship to make things work and they are not pulling their weight. It feels like you are in it alone.
2. They Make You Feel Insecure
They feed into your insecurities. Instead of reassuring you they leave you worst off. They make you feel like you are not good enough.
3. You Always Find Yourself Defending Their Actions
They are always doing things that have you trying to defend their reasons for doing it. Your family and friends can see they are no good for you but you are too blind to see it for yourself.
4. They Make You Feel Excluded
They never include you in anything. Your opinion is not even considered when they plan outings. The only time you are included is when you do the planning.
5. They Are Inconsiderate Of Your Feelings
They are constantly doing things that hurt your feelings. They never take the time to ask what's wrong or put any effort into trying to figure out what's wrong with you.
They act like your feelings don't matter.