Everyone who has been through heartbreak is somehow changed. Heartbreak influences on our decisions, on our habits and on our reactions. We are doing everything differently and we are not aware that those things happen because we went through something different and painful.
Here are the 12 things which women do unintentionally after heartbreak:
Don’t trust anyone
If there is a guy who is interested in us, we will always doubt his intentions. The first thing that comes to our minds is that he is bored or that he just wants to have sex. We don’t take him seriously because someone has let us down in the past. We always perceive the things in a wrong way and we reject the guys who might be honest with their intentions.
Always think about the worst
If the perfect guy appears, we are always going to look for something that is wrong. We even give stupid advice to our friends who date, leave him, he is cheating… Instead of being happy for them, we are always judging and acting paranoid.
Sadness is our friend
We have been through something in the past that left us heartbroken and devastated. We are scared to love again and we have built a mechanism that can easily accept sadness instead of happiness.
Being romantic looks stupid to us
Seeing a couple that is hugging and kissing or anything that is connected with romance make us vomit. We cannot accept compliments and we are always replying with something stupid. It’s like we want the world to know that our love lives are terrible.
Chasing for somebody who is out of our league
We are always after some celebrities or athletes and actors that we can only dream of. It’s a defensive mechanism for protection. Knowing that you cannot be with this person will keep you safe from heartbreak.
Deep down, besides the hatred and the denial of love, there is still hope that things will get better. After all, we are just human beings and we all need love and someone beside us. We secretly hope that there is one person somewhere in this cruel world who will find us and make our wounds healed.