In order to have a healthy relationship you have to make sure you are loving from a healthy place. It's hard to love someone correctly when we bring old residue into new relationships.
Most men end up losing good women because they get comfortable and start taking them for granted. They bring to new relationships the same old behaviors from their last and fail to realize a strong woman will not put up with what his last may have swept under the rug.
HERE ARE 7 THINGS MEN FOOLISHLY DO THAT MAKE THEM LOSE A STRONG WOMAN.
1. PLAYING HARD TO GET
A strong woman knows exactly what she wants and will do her part to make it known. What she will not do is chase after a man. Playing hard to get only turns a good woman off.
It's either you want her or you don't. She will not wait around for you to decide whether you want her or not. She's past dealing with man who are unsure about what they want. She will just move on.
2. YOU EMOTIONALLY SUPPRESS HER
A strong woman loves a man who is open with his emotions and not one that tries to hide how he really feels. A man afraid to show his emotions makes a good woman look at him as a red flag. He should be comfortable to be able to open up to her.
She doesn't want to feel like she's pulling teeth in order to get him to open up. She wants to feel like she is free to express herself and receive the same in return
3. YOU DON'T ALLOW HER TO GROW
A strong woman loves a challenge. There is no challenge she is not willing to overcome. She doesn't need you to solve her problems, she needs to know that she can count on you to be there for her if she needs you.
Allow her to go through things without trying to save her. She doesn't want you to make her feel like she is incapable of handling things thrown her way.
4. YOU PUT FORTH NO EFFORT IN THE ADVANCEMENT OF THE RELATIONSHIP
Every strong woman loves a strong man who takes the initiative to move forward with the relationship. She wants a man who discusses his expectations and what he wants moving forward.
She'll appreciate you more for being straight forward than to hold back for fear of rejection. Let her know you want to move on to the next level. Don't make her feel like the relationship has reached a dead end.
5. YOU DISRESPECT HER
A strong woman will only put up with so much disrespect before she decides to move on. She may love you and doesn't want to lose you but she loves herself more than to be dealing with a man who feels comfortable disrespecting her.
Don't force her into doing something she doesn't want to do. Respect her boundaries and stop taking her for a joke. She wants to feel protected by you not disrespected.
6. YOU ARE DEMEANING
Don't act like you are perfect and free from error. There's a difference between being confident and being arrogant. Don't belittle her to make yourself feel high and mighty.
She wants a man who supports her dreams and not someone who demeans her dreams and aspirations. You are only giving her reason to leave and not want to work things out.
7. YOU ACT NEEDY
Strength attracts strength. She doesn't want to feel like you depend on her for everything. She's worked really hard for everything she has accomplished and expects you to do the same.
You have to grind to get to where you want to be. She doesn't want to deal with a man who is not motivated and lacks the inspiration to better his life.
She will always be there for you and will go above and beyond for a man who shows her effort, what she won't do is deal with a man who can't get out of his own way and always depends on her for everything.