There's not enough love in the world to put up with a man who does the minimal and expects you to take him serious. Sometimes you have to put your ego aside and see the picture for what it is. If he’s treating you like something to do, don’t worry about what's coming out of his mouth, that means you’re just something to do. Your self-respect needs to weight more than his potential. Never be so desperate for love that you fail to see things for what they are. Pay attention to these signs.
1. HE ONLY TEXTS YOU FOR HOOK UPS
If the only time you hear from him is after a certain time, he is not looking to spend time because he misses you. He is looking for a quick relief.
2. YOU ARE THE ONLY ONE WHO PLANS DATE NIGHTS
Stop being the one to always plan the dates. If he was really into you he would court you rather than make excuses. If he was really interested he would actively engage and try to schedule dates with you.
3. YOU START TO FEEL UNWORTHY
If the relationship starts to feel one sided more than likely it is. His lack of effort starts to make you feel like you are not worth it you might be entering into a dangerous toxic relationship.
4. HE'S NEVER BOUGHT YOU ANYTHING
If the closest thing to buying you anything was ordering take out, he's not interested in you the way you might think. A man who is interested will take the time to buy you something as simple as flowers just to let you know he was thinking of you.
5. YOU DON'T KNOW HIS FRIENDS
He has never introduced you to his friends, and his friends don't even know you exist because he's never mentioned you. It's humiliating. A man who is interested will always brag to his friends about who has his attention. At the very least even if he's not the type to brag his friends would definitely know about you to some extent.