She's the type of woman that sparks a fire that doesn’t die out, and has stuck by your side through all the ups and downs the relationship has gone through. She sees your potential even when you fail to see it for yourself. There's a difference between a woman who is around for the moment and a woman who will ride it out through any storm with you. Don't take her for granted and think that she will be around forever despite everything you put her through simply because she's around right now.
She loves you enough to push you to become a better version of yourself. She tries to guide you, motivate you, or points out what you could be doing to fully realize your potential. Why? She is selfless, she genuinely wants you to do well in life. Women are planners with a vision and men hate to be smothered. If you have a woman like that ask yourself "Does she better me, does she challenge me" if your answer is yes then don't sabotage your relationship with her just to find a basic woman who will only enable your weak areas. She will change you, but change is good. She will hold you accountable, but accountability is mandatory. She will expect the most from you to the point where it annoys you, but isn’t that what you need?
Understand that her love is never ending and selfless. She goes above and beyond for you and the relationship. She knows how to minister to you on days you just want to be comforted. You can always count on her to be there for you when you are having a bad day. She’s the kind of woman who doesn’t seek for your attention but is constantly giving you all of hers. She's secure enough in herself to know her worth and never looks to you for validation or attention but sure as hell deserves it.
She is completely confident in who she is and she doesn’t let anyone else define her as a person. She lets herself shine and it’s because you manage to inspire her to do so. She motivates herself to treat you better because she thinks she’s a better person overall because of you. She’s the kind of woman who isn’t needy or clingy. She doesn’t always have to ask you to cater to her every need but she would be willing to do whatever you ask of her. She is ready to do whatever it takes to earn and keep your love because you mean that much to her.
Stop being afraid to love her correctly, and start loving her for the queen that she is. If she treats you like a king without a ring that's proof enough for you to wake up. There are plenty of men out there who would love to be in your shoes loving the woman you are taking for granted. There comes a point in every woman's life when she becomes tired. Tired of the excuses, tired of the games, tired of the explanations, tired of the lies, tired of caring. Tired of the only thing she gets in return for her loyalty, is a new reason not to be. When this happens, you have 2 choices. Either love her, or leave her alone. If you're smart you'll
make the decision before she makes it for you.