We don’t have to be perfect to have a good relationship but we have to be capable of maturity. Some people come into relationships with child like mentality which causes us to have to let go of great relationships...because of immaturity.
They might be fun to play with but when it comes to real issues and trying to build something solid it requires maturity. Many lack that important characteristic in their personal lives.
Maturity is not perfect, maturity is ready and capable of doing what grown people have to do to make love work for a lifetime and not just for fun times.
Love and ownership are synonymous...They don’t care about you, they care about what you do for them...they care about you tolerating them.
Even if you’re in the same house, it’s their house. They will treat you like trash and believe they treat you like a treasure. When you try to leave they will refuse to let you go...not because they want you but because they can’t stand the thought of somebody else wanting you.
Guarding your heart sometimes requires letting people go. Not because you hate them but because sometimes loving somebody means keeping them in your prayers and putting them out of your personal life.
We have to be willing to go regardless of how hard it may be. If they are no longer serving a full course meal why settle for crumbs of affection?
Love won't make you crazy...Not letting go of somebody who does not know how to or refuses to love you right will. Don't blame them for making you crazy...they can't make you crazy if you stop making yourself stay where you're not wanted.
Letting go is never easy but necessary. Let go with confidence. Don't do overtime in a season, allow that door to close and let it be. Your love comes with a price and settling for anything less than you deserve is cheating yourself.
Sometimes you have to look in the mirror and ask yourself what is it that keeps you settling for someone who is not worth it, someone who does nothing for you. Nobody knows you better than you.
Nobody but you knows the truth and the pain of waking up every morning pretending like everything is okay while you are slowly dying inside. You can't remember the last time you felt genuinely happy with the person you are with.
Nobody but you will regret not letting go sooner, knowing you haven't felt like yourself in a long time. Love shouldn't hurt, and love shouldn't feel like it's being forced.
Life is too short to settle for unhappiness and too short to deal with someone who makes it difficult to love them. You deserve the same type of love you give in return. You shouldn't have to feel like you are in a winless battle with your heart.
Let someone who will value you and take care of your heart find you. Let go of the one blocking your blessing. Your blessing can't find you if you are still holding on to what's holding you back.
Let go of whomever is holding you back and go live your life.