Isn't it pathetic how we waste so much time on certain people and in the end they prove they weren't even worth a second of it. The older we get the less patience we develop for people and their BS.
Some of us learn the hard way when it comes to people we love. We give and give while all they do is take. Some of us are natural givers and we have to train ourselves not to be that way with certain people.
The more of ourselves we give the more we get taken for granted. We give with no expectations but it hurts when we ask for the most simple things and get accused of asking for too much.
Never feel guilty for asking for help, specially if they are your partner. That's what partners are suppose to do. They are suppose to be there for you no questions asked.
If they are quick to belittle you for asking them for help, it's not that you are asking for too much, it's more so that you are asking the wrong person because if they really loved you they would have no problems being there for you.
What's the point of being in a relationship with someone that you can't depend on? Sometimes you gotta learn to carry yourself on your own back. Some people will drop you quicker than they will pick you up.
One thing i've learned it that you can't control someone's loyalty no matter how good you are to them. They won't treat you the same. They won't value you the same.
Those that really want to be in your life will go above and beyond to show you they want to be there. You won't have to beg or ask for their attention. You will know by the way they treat you.
You won't feel like you have to spoon feed them into loving you correctly. Nobody is ever that lost when it comes to loving someone they really want in their life.
Don't let someone who refuses to love you correctly sit in your life taking up your valuable time. That's time you will never get back. You will regret it in the end.
You need someone who will help you reach your dreams not tear them down. Someone who will protect you from your fears and love every part of you.
Don't waste anymore of your time fighting with someone to treat you right. Instead find someone who knows what you are capable of and celebrates those pieces of you.
Someone who calls you out on your mess but doesn't make you feel guilty for being flawed. Find someone that is patient, forgiving, and apologetic. Someone who loves you enough to love you through your imperfections.
Wasting time is no longer something you are willing to do. Specially when you are doing your part. You have too much to offer to allow a man to block your blessings.
Someone can have all the love in the world for you, but if you can't appreciate them nor play your part in making things work you are a waste of time.
Take time for "you"...Find time to love "you" and if a man comes along and contributes to that love....great, but never settle for one who constantly takes away from it.
Guard your time. Once you have determined that he's wrong for you, don't give him anymore of your time. Never waste your time trying to convince someone of your worth. If they can't see it, they are not worth the effort.