Falling in love is one of the best feelings you can experienced, but now a days you have to be cautious who you allow into your heart. Not everyone you meet deserves the priviledges of your love.
Be patient and wait for the one who will cater to your needs and make you realize that love doesn't hurt when you are being loved right. The heart meant for you will honor and respect your boundaries. He will know how to care for your heart.
Until you find the man who does these 5 things, stay single:
1. Romances You
Don't settle for a man who doesn't understand the importance of romance. Every woman deserves a man who takes the time to romance her every now and then. It doesn't mean going all out and spending money.
It's the small gestures that mean the most. The unexpected flowers he brings you, or the unexpected dinner he cooks for you. Maybe the picnic he planned out to show you how much you mean to him.
2. Makes You Feel Loved
Part of what makes a woman feel loved is not just the romantic gestures, but the affection and attention he gives you. Be with a man who is happy to be with you. A man that shows you more than he tells you.
Showing you and telling you he loves you are two different things. A man who talks too much but never shows up is just a boy who doesn't know what he wants. Don't let his words keep you hoping that one day he will show you. You should know he loves you by the way you currently feel. Not by the way he once made you feel.
3. He's Playful
Life can be stressful. You don't need your partner to be stressing you as well. You want someone whom you can share your day with and helps you relax. Someone who is willing to take the stress off of you by making you laugh.
There's no better feeling than having a partner you can be playful with. Life doesn't always have to be serious. It's healthy behavior to enjoy each other's company by goofing around, it does the soul good.
4. Makes You Feel Protected
When the world feels like its crashing down on you he's there to make you feel safe. You want a partner who makes you feel protected and comforts you when life gets hard. Not someone who makes it harder for you.
As your man it is his responsibility to want to do these things. You shouldn't feel like you are on your own when you have a man who claims he loves you. His arms should always feel like your safe haven from everything going wrong in your life.
5. He Is Respectful
The heart meant to love you will respect you and your boundaries. Respect is a quality every man should come with. He doesn't get extra brownie points or praise because he is a decent human.
A man who can easily disrespect you doesn't deserve your love, time, and energy. If he can't respect you show him the door. You are worth someone who will treat you with the upmost respect.
Sometimes we settle for the wrong one because we are afraid of letting go and hurting. But it's best to let go early on and hurt temporarily than to hurt for a lifetime. You know if someone is wrong for you by the way they make you feel.
Love shouldn't hurt and definitely shouldn't have you crying more than laughing. Sometimes you have to look at the bigger picture and gather up the strength to walk away and wait for the one who will treat you nothing less than amazing.