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Stop Repeating Yourself, Sis. Keep It Moving.

His actions will tell you all you need to know about his type of love.

When you’re in a relationship, there’s no harm in going that extra mile for your partner. It is completely okay to try your best to make them happy and to let them know that you love them to the moon and back. After all, love is selfless, isn’t it?

However, you should know the difference between a selfless and a one-sided love affair. There are times when your partner loves you but lacks the ability to express, but then there are times, he or she is not interested in you but will hang in there, just because your partner either loves all the pampering you do or need someone to be there for until he/she finds the next prey.

If you’re in love with someone but aren’t sure if he/she loves you the same, here are 5 signs that can help you know, if you’re in a one-sided relationship.

1. One-Sided Conversations

When you’re in a relationship, communication is the best way to keep the spark alive. From sharing your day to day happenings to discussing your family problems, it is what makes you come closer to each other and keeps the bond strong and alive.

However, if the conversation between you and your partner is always one-sided and if you are the one who is always initiating the conversation, then it’s time to take a second look at your relationship.

2. You Are Always The One Apologizing

Are you always the one to apologize, even when you’re not the one at fault? Then that’s the biggest sign of a one-sided relationship. Love is all about feeling loved and comforted by your partner in times of distress.

But when you’re in a one-sided relationship, your partner will make you feel sorry for every small thing you stress over, be it your emotional self or the stressful thoughts you can’t avoid. Instead of making you feel better about yourself, your partner will ask you to toughen up and sweep the matter under the carpet.

3. You Make Excuses To Justify His Actions

If you’re in a one-sided relationship, more than a lover, you become your partner’s spokesperson. For every mistake they make, for every awkward situation they create and for every family event they miss, you have to make an excuse and/or justify their actions.

You have to take all the responsibility to safeguard your partner’s reputation and keep your loved ones happy too. Not only is it stressful, but it is also exhausting.

4. They Put Their Friends Before You

If you’re in a one-sided relationship, more than a lover, you become your partner’s spokesperson. For every mistake they make, for every awkward situation they create and for every family event they miss, you have to make an excuse and/or justify their actions.

You have to take all the responsibility to safeguard your partner’s reputation and keep your loved ones happy too. Not only is it stressful, but it is also exhausting.

5. He Makes You Feel Insecure

Insecurity arises out of doubt. Sometimes, you already know that you’re in a one-sided relationship but do not want to believe it. You look away from the signs and constantly feel insecure about your relationship.

You look to people for validation instead of talking it out with your own partner. Be willing to hurt temporarily by walking away from someone who doesn't appreciate you. In the long run you'll be glad you did.

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