If he really wanted to be with you, he wouldn't confuse you. Real men know who and what they want and go for it. Weak men will ask you to lead them through the darkness, then let go of your hand when they find the light. Don't waste your time on a man who hasn't decided what he wants, its draining and unnecessary stress.
Some men don't care about you enough to love you correctly, but they will hang around for as long as you play dumb. A man coming back around is not a sign that he loves you. Him showing anger and persistence to get you back isn't proof of love. Love is him acting right from the start so that he doesn't fuck it up.
Him leaving and popping in and out of your life is not a sign that he can't live without you, it's a sign of him sniffing around just to see if he still has power of your better judgement. It is him checking to see if you have someone new in your life. Stop chasing the idea that because he keeps coming back he loves you and recognize he is running game. Him coming back around and making attempts to change for a few weeks isn't proof that he is trying. It is proof that he knows how to diffuse u long enough to get you to take him back.
Real change in a man takes time. Be careful of a man who is quick to come back around after a breakup promising he's changed. That kind of change usually lasts only a few days, maybe weeks. Then you are back to where you started.
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