Some men actually blame imperfection for why their relationship failed. "It didn't start right," "we moved too fast." "We weren't ready." We didn't know what love meant or the work it would take."
"We had work to do on ourselves." If you have a flaw, and you do, many if you be honest...and if you're human, you're going to be working on yourself for the rest of your life... In a relationship with your self or with somebody else.
Let's be real, love doesn't make working on yourself harder. You didn't fail because you or they weren't perfect, or conditions weren't perfect when you met. Ego, pride, stubbornness, laziness and carelessness kills relationships.
What one man won't do another man will...
A man who is inconsistent when it comes to you is a man who is not sure about you. One day he treats you like you are the most important woman in the world and the next he treats you like you don't exist.
There is no room for inconsistency this year. You deserve someone who will show you they want you in their life.
Like the saying goes, "One man's trash is another man's treasure." Most men will have a treasure at home but fail to recognize their blessing is staring them in the face because they are too immature to realize it.
Some men will walk into relationships with a child like mentality, expecting a grown up relationship. Sabotage their gift and then wonder why their women got fed up.
She is wife material, made for a man who will appreciate her when he has her not when she's had enough and decides to leave.
Being held by the man in your life when everything seems to be going wrong in your life is the best form of affection any man can show a woman. It makes her feel safe.
Showing your woman affection when she needs it the most makes her feel like despite everything that is going wrong you are a safe place.
4. Quality Time
No relationship can survive if quality time is not spent. Spending quality time allows you to get to know each other even more. You get to learn more about their strengths and weaknesses.
That's what brings two people in a relationship closer. The amount of quality time you dedicate to her is just as important as everything else in the relationship.
Listen to her. Listening is a part of loving her. Don't allow your ego to get in the way of listening to what she has to say. Don't make the mistake of thinking she is nagging because she is pointing out things that have been on her mind.
She is communicating those things in hopes that the both of you will work at it to fix the issues.
Relationships are not complicated they are made complicated by someone who does not want to put in the work in takes to make any relationship work. A man that understands the blessing he has in front of him won't lose sight of his gift.
All it takes is effort to make things work. Pull your weight as she pulls hers, because what one man won't do another man is willing to do and some, remember that.