As the gentler gender, women tend to be forgiving, patient and kinder than men. They can even take a lot of terrible behavior without snapping back unlike men. The problem is that women usually keep things inside over time, they can accumulate as their patience wears thin. Once a woman’s lid blows off, they can turn and never come back.
Women are seen as indecisive and fickle-minded. They can be forgiving and tolerate bad behavior for quite a long time, but they do have a limit. Once she decides she’s had enough, however, she won’t be indecisive and she’ll walk out the door for good.
This is especially true when it comes to dating. It may seem like she can put up with anything and will watch you screw her up constantly. You can make her seem bad and she’ll forgive you non-stop until she decides not to put up with it anymore. In the end, you’ll be the one losing a lot.
Women need to be treated with respect. Don’t think for a minute that her seemingly endless patience as there’s a limit to what you can do to her. Before you see her walking out the door, however, there is a small window of time when you can change and fix things.
If you change on time, she may decide to believe in you again and you’ll get a second chance at your relationship.
When dating a girl, you need to be on the top of your game at all times if you want to keep it going. Treat her right and try your best as she deserves nothing less than it.
So, before you lose her for good, try and change. Of course, faking it won’t bring her back. This is even worse than not changing at all, as she’ll be able to see you for the faker you really are.
Remember – even though it hurt her to leave you, she did what’s best for her. It’s a really difficult and life-changing experience, so she won’t just turn her mind back and get back with you. She never wants to experience the same thing again, so when she leaves out the door, she’ll most likely stay out of your life for good.
In this way, she’s looking forward to the future and closing a chapter of the past. If you mistreated her and left, you’re nothing but a speck of dust to her. You’re simply not worth looking back on as she’s focused on her own future.
If we’re being honest, when you let a girl go, you probably never gave you a reason to stay anyway. What makes you think that she’ll be back? Don’t be cocky like that she’s left you and will never come back.
There isn’t a single thing you can do to convince her to come back. And, while it may be difficult for her, she’s going to endure it all as she knows she deserves better. After a while, she’ll forget all about you and find a guy she really deserves.
As tempting as it might be to give the relationship another try, a fresh start is simply better for her. That’s what she gained from the time she spent with you – she’s giving her life a restart and you’re nowhere in her plans.