You Can't Make The Wrong One Be The Right One

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You Can't Make The Wrong One Be The Right One

When the heart hurts it’s almost always because we are being mishandled or being mistreated by the person we love. Hurt hurts and we usually express it through tears or anger. It hurts when we give a relationship our all and end up with nothing.

Loving a man harder won't make him love you back. Only love can do that. The wrong man will always have you questioning where you stand, if he was the right one you would know without having to ask.

When his love is real you will know by the way he treats you and makes you feel.

The Right One

The right one will embrace everything that the wrong one took for granted. Eventually you will meet someone who’s tired of the games and who wants mature, passionate and one of kind love too...and their loyalty will match yours. Be Patient.

You will know he is the right one by the way he treats you. You won't have to second guess your place in his life. He will make sure you know.

The Wrong One

You aren't suppose to be all of that to somebody who is missing all that you need. Eventually, love will tell you if it's not love, if they're not for you. If you don't listen, you will spend your emotions trying to make the wrong person do the right thing.

Unfortunately, no amount of trying can make a rock be a tree. Accept the truth and love yourself enough to move on. You can't lose someone who you are not meant to grow with.

The Right One

A good man will encourage you to open up and share your feelings with him. There should never be any fear of him flying off the handle or overreacting if you share something with him.

This means being able to be the most genuine, uncensored version of yourself around him. He will make you feel comfortable enough to be able to express your genuine self without feeling judged.

The Wrong One

Not everyone is big on labels and it's not uncommon to be in a situation where one partner just wants to "see where it goes." But if you're in love with someone who hasn’t given you any signs of commitment and that's what you really want, you probably fell for the wrong one.

It's reflective of a major difference in values. If this is the case, communication is key. Tell your partner that putting a label on what you have matters to you and be clear on why. If your partner isn't into it, you need to think about what that means for you. What are your relationship goals and will your goals align with this partner? If not, then bye.

The Right One

Love is not a passive emotion. It is not just something that bursts into our hearts like fireworks only to dissipate as quickly as it arrived. Love is a choice.

It is a conscious effort to look past differences, to embrace how your partner can improve you, to embrace what they can teach you about life — and what you can teach them in return.

Love is not something you “fall” into, it is something you rise into. It is something you rise into together, converging and combining your paths when you meet, and continuing on one single road of life together from that point on.

That road will have speed bumps and potholes and unexpected obstacles. It may not be the road you envisioned yourself going down.

But you can take solace in the fact that it is the only road you would ever want to be on, because the person you love is on it next to you. The right man will never make you worry that he might take the next exit and leave you traveling alone — because he has committed to making the choice to love you. Every day

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